reflog: libify delete reflog function and helpers

Currently stash shells out to reflog in order to delete refs. In an
effort to reduce how much we shell out to a subprocess, libify the
functionality that stash needs into reflog.c.

Add a reflog_delete function that is pretty much the logic in the while
loop in builtin/reflog.c cmd_reflog_delete(). This is a function that
builtin/reflog.c and builtin/stash.c can both call.

Also move functions needed by reflog_delete and export them.

Helped-by: Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason <avarab@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: John Cai <johncai86@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>

object.h

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@ struct object_array {
  * builtin/fsck.c:           0--3
  * builtin/gc.c:             0
  * builtin/index-pack.c:                                     2021
- * builtin/reflog.c:                   10--12
+ * reflog.c:                           10--12
  * builtin/show-branch.c:    0-------------------------------------------26
  * builtin/unpack-objects.c:                                 2021
  */