cmd/k8s-operator,ipn/conf.go: fix --accept-routes for proxies (#11453)

Fix a bug where all proxies got configured with --accept-routes set to true.
The bug was introduced in https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/pull/11238.

Updates#cleanup

Signed-off-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>

cmd/k8s-operator/sts.go

@@ -650,10 +650,11 @@ func applyProxyClassToStatefulSet(pc *tsapi.ProxyClass, ss *appsv1.StatefulSet)
 // produces returns tailscaled configuration and a hash of that configuration.
 func tailscaledConfig(stsC *tailscaleSTSConfig, newAuthkey string, oldSecret *corev1.Secret) ([]byte, string, error) {
 	conf := ipn.ConfigVAlpha{
-		Version:   "alpha0",
-		AcceptDNS: "false",
-		Locked:    "false",
-		Hostname:  &stsC.Hostname,
+		Version:      "alpha0",
+		AcceptDNS:    "false",
+		AcceptRoutes: "false", // AcceptRoutes defaults to true
+		Locked:       "false",
+		Hostname:     &stsC.Hostname,
 	}
 	if stsC.Connector != nil {
 		routes, err := netutil.CalcAdvertiseRoutes(stsC.Connector.routes, stsC.Connector.isExitNode)